Do You Talk to Yourself?
I’m not sure if this is true of all introverts but I process internally. When I say something or voice a decision it’s usually been processed for sometime and I’m announcing it to the world.
Others that I know process externally. It’s like they need to hear their voice in order to come to a decision. Admittedly I talk to myself sometimes too but never in front of someone else!
Put the two together and it makes for some very confusing collaboration. Learning how each person processes and appreciating the others way has hugely helped.
Do you talk to yourself in order to make decisions? When you say something are you hearing for the first time or have you been saying it to yourself, inside your head, for sometime?
